quagmire

Today is an extremely sad yet supposed to be Elia&Mary’s happiest day! 

Elia’s mum passed on TODAY at about 3am & their vows are still slated for 11am TODAY . We are entangled at the extremes of life. We had planned to be happy. Everything was all set(venue decor is ready, cake is set,  food is probably half ready, I have the rings & mugole’s suit in my car trunk) yet again, we also have another huge reality upon us - a burial is being planned for in this moment.

Upon Elia receiving the news, he encouraged himself for sometime but eventually dropped some body energies after seeing the *body. Yes! he’s being attended to medically and thankfully he’s not in a worrying state. 

But still, it’s very hard to fully comprehend or comfort either of our bagole or the other close relatives and friends.

I’m praying at heart, in words and alongside others - we are offering all the help we can to our people.

Next time you hear the word quagmire being said, I’m experiencing it live, even with my own eyes as i type this. 

Their Bestman this 06.05.23 at 09:02

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